I Want Her Back
Surprisingly, the easy part is actually getting your ex girlfriend to come crawling back to you: It all comes down to pushing her "emotional hot buttons". Triggers that are specific to only women. Following the simple step-by-step blueprint I have laid out for you below, getting her back suddenly becomes the easy part of the puzzle (but not the only part). She will begin to chase and pursue you. For most all guys, the "getting her back" part is the easiest of all the steps. But...There is another very important "step" none of the other so called "experts" dare talk about:
Keeping her (and NOT being her man-slave) once you get her back...
You're about to have two of your main problems solved:
1. You're going to get your ex girlfriend back.
2. After you get her back, you're going to "train" her to treat you like a King.
How Brian Got His Ex Girlfriend Back
"I haven't slept since she left me! I'm desperate and I need your help!" Shouted my buddy Brian. I could tell he had been crying but he was covering it up.
I looked my best friend straight in the eye and said, "Just relax man. I know exactly how you can get her back."
Brian relaxed a bit after hearing those words and said, "I could sense something was wrong for the past few weeks now but I didn't do anything about it. I could literally feel her slipping away from me. Little by little she drifted further and further away, giving me less and less attention. I honestly didn't know what to do..."
I just smiled inwardly, knowing all too well that this kind of thing happens all the freakin' time. Lord knows I've gone through it many times myself. Everything was going well with Brian and his girlfriend for years and then one day, BAM, all of a sudden:
She stopped having sex with him. She stopped calling him as much. She stopped laughing at his jokes. She started giving him one word answers. She stopped "looking" at him the same way. She started talking to him in a monotone voice. She started openly flirting with other guys. This all went on for about two months (driving poor Brian crazy wondering why). And then, seemingly out of nowhere she drops those four little words that made Brian's heart do summersaults. Thump! Thump! Thump!
"We Need To Talk"
When they went out for coffee, Brian was pretty nervous. He could sense what was coming. He knew they were having problems, but he never guessed it would come to this.
As he made small talk, Brian's heart continued to race. He tried his best to hold himself together but it was no use. She kept saying things like:
"I just need time apart" "I need space" "It's not you, it's me" "Things just aren't the same anymore" "We can still be friends"She even went on to blame Brian for the problems in the relationship. As if it was somehow all his fault.
And after that, the rest is history. You already know how it ends because it literally just happened to you. And just like my friend Brian, you're going to need my help, so read on.
7 Common Mistakes You're Making Right Now That Are Killing Your Chances!
Shockingly, the vast majority of what men naturally do after a breakup actually ensures they will never get back together with their ex girlfriend.
Does this sound like you?
a. Acting depressed so your ex girlfriend will feel bad for you and want you back out of pity?
b. Generally being overly nice and telling your girlfriend you love her over and over again?
c. Telling your girlfriend you will change and that things will be different next time?
d. Buying her gifts, flowers or anything of that nature?
e. Using phony, manipulative trickery such as money, kids and guilt to almost bribe your ex girlfriend back to you?
f. Futilely trying to reason, argue and use logic to persuade your ex girlfriend to come back to you? (hint: women make decisions based on emotion and not logic - I will show you how to leverage her emotions)
g. Doing absolutely nothing and shutting her out of your life completely?
It's hard to believe, but all of the above will only further push your ex girlfriend away from you. What actually works seems very counter-productive but I assure you it is based on deep rooted female psychology. I'm talking about the stuff that makes her tick. The stuff she has absolutely no control over. It's how she is biologically programmed to behave.
Take Action Now Or She'll Find A New Man
To Have Sex With
I'm just going to be honest with you: women always look for a rebound after a breakup. Did you know that based on a study released August 5th 1997, researchers found that women have sex with an average of 12 men in their life while men only have sex with 7 women? How's that for shattering a sexual stereotype?
My point is, women have it much easier when it comes to sexual selection. Often times, they have a number of men "orbiting" around them, just waiting for a breakup. You don't have to let these other guys win though!
It's hard picturing your ex girlfriend having sex with another man. And you know it's only a matter of time before that actually happens. She'll spread her legs and give herself to somebody else, eventually. It'll probably happen sooner rather than later too. And the longer you wait, the more your window of opportunity closes.
You need to act fast, but you need to act in the correct manner. You need to act in a way in which your girlfriend will respond to. After researching the internet for months, I have shortlisted 3 websites that can provide you with the strategy and step by step plans to get your ex girlfriend back in days. Read the reviews below to find out more.
Rank #1: Magic Of Making Up - Highly Recommended
Released in spring of 2008, this resource caught our attention for its creative approach to saving troubled relationships. The author, T.W. Jackson, does not claim to be a professional therapist, but he definitely has some great insights on why relationships fail and how to fix them. Reading through his book you are sure to experience a few “light bulb moments” where you think of ways to connect his ideas to your own situation.
One of the things we like most about this book is the way it reads. It feels like you are having a cup of coffee with T.W. as he explains the ins and outs of love and relationships. Instead of using a textbook approach with big words and no emotion, The Magic of Making Up is more like a mentoring session. Picture it as sitting down for dinner with your own personal relationship coach.
The Strategy
The first part of this book covers the important parts of a successful relationship. The difference between what men and women need to feel wanted, and what makes them ultimately give up on their partner. The focus then changes to your unique circumstance and how to identify exactly why your ex left you.
The heart of T.W.’s book is his strategies for rebuilding the attraction and romance with your ex. There are several psychological tactics he shares to get your ex to start thinking about you again. Some involve the way you communicate with them, while others are designed to give you the confidence you need to succeed.
The full plan takes you through the entire of process of getting back together. From calling them for the first time, to dating again, and all the ways to keep things moving in the right direction. One of the best chapters covers everything you need to know about your first date back together. You learn how to ask them out, what to talk about, and how to make a lasting impression.
Overall
This is a great resource for those who want to get back with their ex, but have no idea where to start. In order to fix a break up you need to gain a mental advantage over your ex. Not because you want to trick them into loving you, but because you need to get past the negative associations they have about your relationship. The Magic of Making Up will help you clear these hurdles and T.W.’s lessons on the needs of men and women will keep you from making the same mistakes in the future.
Sensitivity: 5/5
Honesty: 5/5
Approach: 5/5
Cost: 5/5
Our Rating: 4.8/5
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Rank #2: Ex Girlfriend Guru
This author has an altogether different approach to the situation. This product is primarily directed at women who have lost their relationship with their girlfriend. The SENSITIVITY of this product seems to be one sided.
I have to downgrade this product a bit due to the underhanded approach offered by this author. If you value HONESTY in an individual, then this product has missed the mark slightly.
If you are comfortable with and APPROACH that offers deception as a tool, then you will appreciate this product. The design to undermind the individuals to get them back can be a very successful approach.
The COST of this product is very reasonable and well withn anyones budget. It may be worth a look. Again, if you are looking for a different type of approach, check it out.
Sensitivity: 4/5
Honesty: 3/5
Approach: 4/5
Cost: 4/5
Our Rating: 4/5
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Rank #3: 50 Secrets.com
The SENSITIVITY of this product lacks the focus of the one on one contact that the other two reviews do. This individual seems to be using this site to promote his next book.
I have to say there is HONESTY in the intent of this author. I found it to be more preventive than what to do now that the relationship has hit a rocky moment.
The APPROACH and COST of this book are both acceptable, however, the approach is formed after those individuals that have been together for quite some time.
Sensitivity: 3/5
Honesty: 4/5
Approach: 3/5
Cost: 4/5
Our Rating: 3.5/5
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